Stay Strong

This angers me more than so many things.

Girlfriends are supposed to be loyal sweet loving people. Not whores. If she’s cheating on you, you need to kick her ass out and tell her that you’re not her fuckbuddy. You are not some piece of trash that she can use and move on from. You are a human being and she needs to either respect you or GTFO. I tried to hold onto my cheating boyfriend once, and it didn’t go well. He kept cheating, so I kicked him the fuck out.

I say you do the same to your girl. She clearly doesn’t have the decency to tell you the truth, so tell her to get away from you.

^All of that is just my opinion fyi.

~Faith

Oh, sweetie :( These things do happen. I had the same kind of issue with an ex of mine. Apart, together, apart again. Sometimes it’s for the best that way.

Old memories are a beautiful thing, but if you’re different now, I’m not sure there’s much left to hold onto. You can broach the topic with her and say that you’re unsure of how things are supposed to be between the two of you and how you’re worried that things may have changed, and if you do so, you must be very careful to come off as concerned and caring, tender even.

Don’t start off with “We need to talk.” That’s just scary as shit when people say that, yo.

Start off with, “I wanted to chat about something” or “Do you have a moment?”

Anything non-intimidating. Take it slow and easy, and make it known that you don’t have any intention of hurting her.

Good luck!

~Faith

That isn’t fair at all. If they were true friends, they would help you through it. Not judge you. I don’t think you should trust them anymore. Ask them why they do that, confront them straight up. If they appologize, then so be it. But if they don’t, and just act like bitches again, move on… find new friends. It’s their loss! 

Good luck & Stay strong!

- Elisa <3 

You can try calling her. If not, there’s not much else you can do. Just text her and say something like “Im here for you, just talk to me when you’re ready” or something like that. Losing a loved one, especially a parent, would be really hard— I know i deal with things by shutting people out. She might be like me, trying to grieve. But i’m not sure. Just call her or shoot her a text :) Good luck! Stay strong!

- Elisa <3

Heyo! I realize that I’m probably walking into something that you were working on with another admin, but here I am to offer my two cents!

Firstly, be careful with that heart of yours. I assume you know what you’re doing more than I know what you’re going through. Secondly, don’t sweat it too much. Take a few deep breaths, and know that we’re only human. Don’t freak, don’t give up. You can make it through another day. I promise. <3

Girls tend to get caught up on exes. I just recently got over my first boyfriend ever because he was an aaaass holeeeee~! I didn’t know what to do because I found out that he lied to me and cheated much, much more than I thought. But I don’t worry too much about it, because it’s his issue, not mine.

I only was caught up for so long because I thought that the problem was me. The problem wasn’t me, it was both of us. We weren’t made for each other, nobody is. But if you find somebody you love, don’t change yourself unless you’re sure that they’re willing to change for you, too. You can’t put yourself out on a limb for somebody who you’re not certain will do the same for you. *flashbacks to Bruno Mars song?*

*ahem*

Let’s look at this “alone, frightened, depressed” bit here. I understand entirely how it feels, sweetheart. Going to school without having taken my meds is like walking into a hurricane with only a stick and a small pug named Alfred. I feel like I’m alone, frightened, and depressed. The depression bit usually doesn’t come in too quickly, but the anxiety bit does. People can’t always help their anxiety, and it’s a reeeeal bitch. Feeling like I want to run away but don’t know where to go? Nothankyou, I’d rather feel normal. But that’s not always an option.

I’m an anime fan, so I like to imagine it like an inner battle: I can grab that Anxiety bitch by the balls and show it who’s boss, or I can just kind of huddle up and let it destroy me from the inside until even Alfred gives up on me. But I’d rather take dominance over the anxiety and cuddle Alfred all day. By the way, I don’t really have a pug named Alfred. But now I want one.

As my last bit of advice, get a hula hoop, hold it around your waist, and then drop it on the ground. Everything outside of that hoop? It’s out of your control. That’s nothing to panic about. In fact, it takes a lot off the list “Things I Should Blame Myself For.”

You just gotta hang tight, and see how events unfold. Take a few deep breaths, and know that you are going to be okay. Things are hard, but it could be so much worse, trust me.

Stay strong!

~Faith

if her hearts belong to another guy than respect that you don’t want to get her frustrated bc some girls can get mad easily. Drop hints, but don’t push it too far. Try to show her how you feel w/o being clingy or boyfriend position. Just be a best friend and let her heart go where it belongs. -Yas

I used to be like that! And then I told him, and he liked me back! We’ve both liked each other for two years and this could have happened years ago.

I know this is only one version or events, and there’s another which I can’t tell you about, but I guess what I’m trying to say is that you won’t know unless you try!!

I never knew that he liked me until I told him!
You’ll never know if she likes you until you tell her!!

You can’t lose something you never had!! And okay, she might not like you back, but what if she does??

What if???

-Georgia